it's okay

Weekends feel busier than weekdays lately. Time flew, and I just noticed that I didn’t manage to finish this week’s post. This was bound to happen. It’s okay. Shhh… it’s okay. IT’S OKAY! Discipline is not punching yourself into the mold of a wireheaded soldier. Discipline is the ability to flow around, between, and through various slip-ups. Discipline is persistently looking at the horizon. Okay, I needed this pep talk.

Kerey persuaded me to give twitter1 another chance. He said it’s still filled with interesting people (true) and there is still a chance to have meaningful connections with them (also true). My friendship with him started on twitter. Since we met, we’ve published four zine issues together and writing about vastly different things. It’s more or less clear that our friendship and creative collaboration did not stem from shared interests or aligned worldviews; they stemmed from the infamous tpot.

Anyway, I decided to give it a chance—as I usually do— scrolled a bit, and even tweeted something from the hip. Another banger, another only-liked-by-kerey tweet. It felt familiar, even nostalgic.

The timeline made me feel like I traveled back to 2023. It’s crazy how the discourse sounds exactly the same. Rival dunking on Nietzsche to farm engagement, visa continuing to weave elaborate webs by qting himself (and he follows zero people now—wow), lumpen chaining words together that don’t mean anything to me. It’s all the same and yet all alienating.

However, as usual, I got something from doing the thing I resisted: universe sweetheart started a blog. We were following each other with her for a long time, but I don’t think we ever been moots. I’m happy that I’ll be able to read her stuff outside of twitter.

Some links I enjoyed this week:

Anyway, I’ll be in Brussels, Belgium, from Wednesday, January 28 to Monday, February 2 for FOSDEM. Wanna grab a coffee? Find a way to contact me (there are plenty of options).


  1. Maybe I should stop calling it twitter and start calling it X. It’s clearly not twitter anymore, and I feel like there’s no point in taking this stance anymore. ↩︎